Wedding Planning
Growing up I much preferred to climb trees, play in the dirt with my brother or go fishing than to play with dolls and other typically girly things. So for a girl like me who was never the type to dream of an elaborate fanciful wedding as a little girl, wedding planning is tough.
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For me the priority is to get married and go on a great honeymoon somewhere. The wedding (the getting married part) is planned. We are going to have a small, intimate ceremony with our immediate families only. Afterwards we’ll have dinner at one of our new favorite restaurants. It will be a simple event, but memorable and perfect in my mind with the most important part being that we will be married!
The honeymoon part is also in the works. We are researching online and talking with a travel agent to find the best deal. It’s going to be expensive, but we figure it’s once in a lifetime and it’ll be worth it.
The third piece of the puzzle are the parties. Yes, I said parties. Since Juice has such a huge family we are planning on doing two. One for his family and one for my family and friends. We want to keep it casual and fun. My idea was to do a tailgate since that’s something Juice and I enjoy, but Juice isn’t too hot on the idea and I can see his point. We’re thinking of maybe doing a barbecue or picnic or something, but that’s as far as we’ve gotten.
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There are a couple things getting in our way…
- We are overwhelmed by the whole process of planning. I’m sure if we started planning then we’d realize that it isn’t as daunting of a task as we have it built up in our heads, but neither of us can get past it.
- The finances. As we all know, weddings are expensive even when the economy isn’t the way it is.
- This is probably the biggest factor: in our list of priorities, the parties are currently not ranking too high. There are a lot of things we want to do together in our lives (including a lot of travel) so spending a lot of money on one day is not the most appealing. Of course we would like to celebrate with our friends and family so we’re not closing the books on the parties yet.
All these factors impact one another creating a vicious cycle and leaving us where we are now…stuck.
